Rules: 1. Post with your character by creating a "card" with your name, sex, and preferences. 2. Tag to others. 3. You supposedly only have seven minutes, but that's up to the muns how many comments. [To hell with that, let's not put a limit on how many comments] 4. Have fun.
[ Kaldur is honestly surprised, he didn't expect to have to spell this part out. Was this S.O.P. for most military forces? ]
The conflict comes in that I am their direct superior. Any relationship with a subordinate would have to deal with that existing command structure. It is entirely too possible that pressuring to stay in the relationship might occur—whether intended or not, the stress that the disparity of being in an equal relationship has on the authority and the ability to command in a structure that does not reflect that level of equality, as well as the general complications that can result from being within a relationship being created or exacerbated by the existing command structure.
All of these exist outside of my or my teammate's ability to balance responsibilities.
[ Eh, you work around it. Brother, son, lover, best friend, cousin... you work around it ]
I can see how it would be difficult, although I would argue that it could be done, provided one remembered where the lines between duty and relationship lie. [ Says he who left his beloved brother to die for the sake of the rest of their people ] But I suppose it might be easier to simply not form those relationships, although one does not always have a choice.
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The conflict comes in that I am their direct superior. Any relationship with a subordinate would have to deal with that existing command structure. It is entirely too possible that pressuring to stay in the relationship might occur—whether intended or not, the stress that the disparity of being in an equal relationship has on the authority and the ability to command in a structure that does not reflect that level of equality, as well as the general complications that can result from being within a relationship being created or exacerbated by the existing command structure.
All of these exist outside of my or my teammate's ability to balance responsibilities.
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I can see how it would be difficult, although I would argue that it could be done, provided one remembered where the lines between duty and relationship lie. [ Says he who left his beloved brother to die for the sake of the rest of their people ] But I suppose it might be easier to simply not form those relationships, although one does not always have a choice.